I posted once but it didnt post. I wanted to say I know how you feel. I feel the same way. I reassure my selfby calling alot and checking on them.I also tellthe person there with my fears and make them reassure me what they will do to protect my kids. It does get easier. It has gotten alot easier for me.Mine are 9 and 12. As they grow and stuff it gets easier.Its normal to feel this way. I remember the tears and the panic and the worry I had when they were younger like your kids age. It felt like torture.Its so much easier now. Its not gone and probably never will be but definitly easier.Just call alot ok. Ask about pool sfatey and stuff even if you know it will reassure u.