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I feel so bad about what happened

I have an idea that I will share with you....take the album and put it away. When your children are old enough you can give it to one of them? That is what I did with the one from my wedding and I just put it in the box I keep my son's baby book and other mementos in......just a thought.
I was also thinking...have you ever tried to write down on paper what you are feeling? You could give him the letter (explaining your need for closure) or you could put it away. It may help to get it down on paper your thoughts. There may come a day you could give it to him but sometimes writing things down helps to lift your thoughts a bit.
Take care

Heather
"The Pessimist complains about the wind, the Optimist expects it to change and the REALIST adjusts his sails." ~~~author unknown