sometimes i wish my t would push things along faster... but i know that when i am really processing the memories... if i jump ahead to quick... avoid some of the memories... they are the ones that come back and feel like they are re abusing me... so i think it's important to move slowly... my abuse happened over many years... so how can i expect to heal overnight... as much as i really want this done... i know that if i open too many boxes i couldn't handle it... take gentle care...lyn