i just cant do it ,.... i cant live with this pretence any more ... i a miserable, boring, selfish, unfit mother/wife/daughter and i cant cope any more ...... ijust cant do this. i am weak. tried to be strong but cant do it ,,,,,, i am feeling like im in a hell .... evryway i turn is a black wall i cant do it ........ how do you carry on feeling like this ...someone please help