I have strong erotic transferential feelings towards T as well. I have engaged conversation surrounding this at times in session; not as directly as you Pink, but he is well aware, and has assured me it's okay to have these feelings. Here's the thing, though. I was in therapy once before with a woman. I worked with her for 3 or 4 years. I never had these kinds of feelings. But I don't think it's because she was a woman. I think it's because I never reached the level of intimacy that it seems I am reaching with T. I also believe that with me, intimacy = sex. And I don't know how to separate the two. I also don't think at this point that it will ever go away.

Sigh.