We both want full custody of our children. I have offered him more civilized solutions, like taking care of them half and half and he could see them as much as he wanted, but they would live with me. I offered this to him many times and he argues i. When it all comes down to it and we both do appear in court all I will have to tell them is he has a severe alcohol problem. I am not as fearful as he should be.

It'll be very hard to completely break my relationship off with my friend though. He gives me things I need, especially through these difficult times with my husband. We've agreed that our relationship would not prosper into more then it is, but there is apart of me that wants him all the time. He is a married man and so am I....it's not easy. He's also in the middle of a ugly custody battle over his child and going through separation and divorce.....we need each other.