I am a father of two children. One male and one female. I did everything I knew how to do to build a relationship with my son when he was young. I spent time with him and provided him the money he needed to get a good education and let him choose his own career. In his first year of college he hooked up with a woman. He went on to add several advanced degrees which I helped him afford. Along the way, they married and he changed his name by blending their two names into one to form a completely new last name. It embarrased me and humiliated me. I can not get a perspective on this and seem to think about it all the time. I need help in leting this go. Can anyone help me? Now he has a daughter and another one on the way. He has never told me why he did that. I recently sent him an email asking him to explain why and he now will not reply to my emails or talk to me. Any ideas will be appreciated.