i was wondering one thing.
i dont know what its technically called... but there are so many people who just..
you know when people select facts to prove a certain point. noone looks at all the facts
ever
and its really pissing me off.
you can make someone look like a total *** if u only pay attention to their negative parts and deny the positive
people have been doing this alot lately... they dont stop and wonder what someone means when they say something
they assume that theyre intention was to hurt.
i dont get it. as a person i do try to take in ALL the facts.
but other people dont and its not fair.
if someone chose to do something... because it will get someones attention.. and by getting their attention they can help someone..
surely its ok. but if that original action was hurtful.. but would be eventually overtaken by the help. is it better than just not helping someone?
selective data handling... its rediculous.
idk.
i dont know what to do.
theres an arising problem.. and i dont know wether i can sort it all out. im convinced that everyone involved is guilty of alot of fact selection and assumption.
and ... dang ... its driving me nuts.
maybe i just dont have the motivation to sort it all out... i mean im used to people waltzing off and leaving me after a while...
so if everything breaks up again and everyone waltzes off in their diff directions, it wont be that weird. altho it will be weird that it wasnt just me being chucked outta the group.
yeah, thats usually what happens. i do something. people select the facts to paint me as the bad guy because its simpler than questioning my actions.
and then they dump me.
oh well
im a useless piece of %#@&#! anyway but thats not my point....
oh damn now im depreciating.
nevermind.
i just cant stand the fact that people choose to be ignorant when they dont have to be... when the understanding will help relationships do well rather than collapse.
boy when i get this onto a post itsa be long.
yeah i wrote this on notepad cuz PC died.
but yeah.
anyway. rant over.
bloody wordpress or whatever it is.