Hi TJ

I agree with Pachy that a person is capable of change. Has he agreed to individual and/or family counseling prior to a reconcililaton? IMO, I would pretty much demand that term before even contemplating anything else. Yes, it is nice to have 2 parents for a child, and you can still do that living apart. I wish you luck, and thank you for sharing your story with us, it must have been very difficult.

If you are able, please keep us updated.

Take care,
Dee