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I But... It is my way of bypassing the 'victim triangle', I guess.


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And have you been succesful at that?

Of course some say denial is a sympton of abuse also? I dunno.

I've found I've had to work my way through the victim triangle with good results...I'm not sure if that makes me a bad human being or not? But I don't deny that through my life I Have felt like a victim, unfortunately abuse tends to make one feel victimized..its what one decides to do from there on it that counts.....sometimes seeing others coming from their "victim" roles can make me want to deny their experience, makes me want to re-victimise them...those are the days I'm not dealing with my own vunrablities ...I think just having what I've experienced witnessed/validated by T feeds that part of me that so wanted to be validated/witnessed as a child? .....