I was reading on this other board about a girl with BPD who is dating a guy with DID, and this other girl got all over her telling her that it's not healthy and enabling and all sorts of bad things for the two of them to be together. She even said it was in all the books and studies and things.

Since one of my Dx's is/may be BPD and my BF is DID, does that mean we shouldn't date anymore?
Where are these studies and books? I don't remember reading anything like that in anything so far, but I don't remember a lot of things.
I don't want to break up with him! I love him very much and he loves me and we stand by each other.