(((((((((((((((((((( monty )))))))))))))))))))))) i think having it "set in stone" is scary because other ppls will know. it will be on governmental paperwork, and who might have access to that? it makes us feel so vulnerable and exposed...yes, that's the word! exposed thank you for caring, sweetie. how are you today?

ummm, about the switching of mothers...can i get back with you on that one????

love ya,