yes, his bringing the gun out at 5 in the morning is definitely an act of aggression. he knew the gun was upsetting to me. ..... why you ask was he cleaning his gun at 5am. no reason other than he was trying to intimidate me.

thanks for the great idea to update the lease for the next tenants. immediate eviction and forfeit of deposit i didn't even think of, but believe me, it will be on the lease now...

most interesting thing happened this afternoon. my son was at the beach, so he called one of his friends to check up on me. i glanced out the window and this guy was carrying a huge baseball bat. i asked what in the world was he doing with a baseball bat. he said he came to beat the "crap" out of the tenant that was giving me so much grief. he said the kid needs to learn "respect".. i said lordy, lordy, you just missed the guy. he left fifteen mins ago. he said as long as i was ok, that is all that mattered. i smiled. felt good that someone cared.. but wasn't ready for a baseball bat fight.. wipes brow and thank God... tomorrow the tenant gets the remainder of his belonging, and he is long gone. what a big relief...

anyway..... i am home.......... will be a long time till i go back to my son's house. giving him full responsibility for maintenance and upkeep. i just can't handle all the stress..think this visit made me sick.. head is pounding.. tummy is churning..head is spinning.. prob a delayed reaction......i feel awful... tomorrow is another day .. a better day i am sure..

dang i've talked a lot today.. been years since i had so much to say ..

giant thank you and hugs to all that were so supportive. was very helpful getting me through the day.....