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mak62184 said:
Hey! I understand what you are going through. I was exactly the same way in college. Fortunately, things have gotten a bit better, although they aren't perfect still. Are there any campus activities that you are involved with? If not, you really should. If you put yourself out there, people will start to know you better.
And I find there nothing wrong with having red hair. Honestly, I am jealous of people who have it because it is not boring, unlike being a brunette sometimes. I actually have dyed my hair red before. And you are also lucky because gorgeous actresses like Kate Walsh from Grey's Anatomy and Private Practice dyes her hair that color too.
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Its a little different for guys though
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Lenny said:
Hi Alistair and welcome to PC...
Take a moment to look through this website...there are so many great and famous redheads that they must be catagorized...You are among great company sir...
http://www.redheads.ie/Famous-Redheads.htm
Also your name has a Greek origin and Scotish heritage of Kings and leaders,,but has a root meaning of being a "protector of men"...
It would serve you well if you could find a way to change the nature of how you see yourself...put that in your posture and demeanor and walk on...
You possess everything you need to live up to your potential and beyond...think that way and the people around you will too...
IMHO.
Lenny
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I cant express how much i apreciate this reponse. I think this has got to be the most meaningful advice i have ever recieved on the matter, and best of all, it actually makes sense. Ive noticed others who have good relationships have an air of confidence about them, but always thought that thier good relationships were the reason for thier confidence and happines, and not that the confidence and happiness were the key to thier relationships and thus happiness.
A genuine thank-you to you, Lenny. Im already excited to wake up and be confident tomorow morning.