Im only 18 so i dont really have any experience on the subject at all, and im pretty new to this site, as you can see, but my question for you, is - does your husband know how you feel?

if you've never told him how his behavior bothers you and makes you feel like your voice goes unheard, then perhaps he doesnt know hes doing anything wrong. It may be possible he has no idea his actions bother you, and no matter how slim the chances are my advise is to try talk to him about it.

I would try to wait until everyone is in a good mood with no tension and try to take a seat with him to talk about it - maybe at the end of a meal with him. let him know how you feel. You don't have to make a whole conversation out of it, but take a minute to tell him. Let what you said sink in and then wait for another good time to ask him if he has thought about what you told him, because you wont want to put him on the spot after a sensitive subject.

Then just look for improvement over the next few days. even lok for little improvements he makes, and if you see any, dont let them go unnoticed - let him know you apreciate his efforts to change and hopefully the positive change will continue.

I may be way off, but i hope my input helps.

Best of luck to you and your family.