well i am on the ame road to finding out how to find myself and love myself. I know I have alot to offer, the problem is, when i am having whatever you want to call it, my BEST things about me, become the things i hate the most and there is no way of feeling better. I am not sure if it is okay to say, but I just try to pray and know that he will help me. It is one thing to know somthing and another to do it. I have a hard time not being depressed about my self, so my mood is blah and the way I cope is bla, bad circle! I know you will find your way, counciling is a great start, everyone finds great things out in diffrent ways. Good luck hun.