no need to be sorry. everyone needs to vent once in a while. is your husband unable to care for the children or is it that he will not do it? if he is physically able to care for them for periods at a time, i would leave the house and have him take care of the kids for a change. i know what it is to work from home and care for the kids. i did it for 6 years. it can be very overwhelming and we all need a break from time to time. if he is able to watch the children, i wouldn't even ask him, i would just tell him,"hey i am going out for a while, see ya later". hope everything works out for you.