Hello Leese2008 and welcome to PC! Your fiancé sounds really childish. I know that you need his love and support especially now, but it doesn’t sound like he’s capable of giving it. Is the fighting a new thing? Perhaps brought on by the stress of the baby?

I’d really like to tell you that once the baby is born things will settle down, but you’re heading toward a very stressful time. A new baby can stretch even the healthiest of relationships to the limit. Lack of sleep, privacy, and the added financial burden can really put a lot of stress on your relationship.

Right now there are two people that you have to worry about, you and your baby. He’s an adult and it’s not up to you to make him happy. I don’t know how old you are, but is it possible to move in with a family member that will be able to help you mentally and physically with your newborn?

Either your relationship with him will work out or it won’t but that has to take a back burner to the wonderful, exciting, and exhausting life of being a new parent.

Good luck, I hope that he turns around.