I am thinking not so much ET as defense but more of as a test. A test of therapists integrity, boundaries etc. When little girls twirl around and dance for daddy in their pretty dresses... A good daddy will love his little girl and make her feel special and good and beautiful w/out violating that trust. She will grow to feel comfortable with her sexual identity as well as her worth outside of that. I don't care what anyone says, the therapist/client relationship can NEVER be an equal relationship. Wouldn't it be the ultimate betrayal for the T to respond in any way to the ET? Do we really want a sexual relationship with T or is it the ultimate test?