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Old Jul 17, 2008, 01:06 AM
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>> I find your posts to be invalidating...to much thinking and not enought compassion?

>I'm sorry you feel that way. I gracefully withdraw from the conversation at this point.

I didn't mean to hurt you - to have you feel invalidated or threatened or victimized in any way. I guess I thought that we were good enough friends for you to know that (and to feel it too). That being said, I was trying to be careful to talk about emotions and feelings as well as thoughts and schemas / organizing frameworks. Not prioritizing one over the other, but discussing how they are inter-related.

Your words hurt me there. Maybe... You were using them to communicate a feeling of hurt? I'm not sure if you mean my posts in general (such that you find this to be the case in my responses to other people as well as to you. such that you find this to be the case whenever I respond to you) or whether you just meant here on this thread (some of them or all of them)?

That being said, I don't want you to feel hurt, invalidated, or victimized by my words so I'll just refrain from responding to you. If you have trouble with my posts in other threads then I hope that you can utilize the 'ignore' feature okay.