i think you did right and took care of yourself. no one can ask for more than that. ...well, i guess they *can*, but they shouldn't. If Stacey is mad about it, that is stacey's stuff - not yours. You're doing everything in your power to do right and take care of your physical and mental needs. Sounds to me like the others need to also take responsibility and get their stuff together.
Hugs to you!!!
Kiya