Thanks both of you for taking time in replying this.

Yes i was thinking of stopping talking to this guy, at least not regularly, so im blocking him on chat. Yes i believe you are very right in saying that online a person cant shows its flaws... i thought about that too. I talked to him about this actually, indirectly i made it quite clear that there's no chance of anything more than friendship since im already with someone anyway, and he agreed with me. Still he keeps on flirting with me and he puts me in an uncomfortable position, i dont like to put people down by nature, so i kind of hesitate telling him to stop, and not to be a hypocrite, i think i do enjoy the attention sometimes :/

I think im drawn to him just because i can see in him things my bf lacks, but i do realize that i dont know him that well, so most probably he lacks things my bf has. I think i just find this guy as a way to escape reality and make my day more interesting, since in my mind he equals adventure and new experiences.

Mah, thing is im feeling guilty, do you guys consider all this cheating?