I dont see the hair colour itself a problem I think its the way you see yourself, I have a son who is as ginger as a carrot and calls himself ginger ninja lol. I have always told him his hair is his pride and joy and its beautiful how I wish I had the same colour he is very proud of it and gets annoyed when I cut it short.

He is ten and although people have tried to tease him because he has the right attitude they get nowhere and move on to the fat thin tall short person.

My nephew is the same and is twenty five and has no problems getting girlfriends either (too many sometimes)

Maybe you are just a very sensative soul ? And I mean that in the nicest of ways I truly do.

Perhaps if you try to make friends with people from the local church ? Thats what I used to do its a safer enviroment (my spelling is bad sorry). They are more caring and generaly nicer all round and normaly have lots of clubs for people to go to especialy for youngsters.

Or one type of club ie photography or a volunteer group ?

Hugs and I wish you all the best whatever you decide to do.

Trish.