(((((((((((jbug)))))))))) That sounds like a pretty stressful dream. I'm so sorry.
When I have dreams, sometimes I think my brain is trying to work through thoughts or things that I am unable to or don't take the time to work out throughout the day. Sometimes I think it's the chili I ate the night before.
There might be some place online you can google to read about the symbolism of things in your dream to help. Good luck in figuring things out.