We have been married for a little more than 4 years! I have never loved anyone as much as I love her. But I have to go!

Her son who is now 15 years old and is still pooping his pants! (every day) After many visits to many doctors all of them telling my wife that there is nothing medically wrong with him. Each doctor says it is a behavioral problem. So I convince her to get him to a behavioral specialist who after ten or more visits tells my wife that her son gets some type of pleasure out of messing his pants and that she is the only one who can stop him from messing his pants.

He explained that simple forms of punishment for doing it (no TV, no video games,no toys) would eventually shy him away from doing it.

Well my wife seems to think that punishment is a negative and she does not want any negativity between her and her son.

She wants me to be a part of her sons life but I really can't stand the smell of him and just keep my distance at all times. She is starting to hate me for it .

Every one I talk to tells me that they could not live with it and that she is wrong. So I have to get out and I am depressed about it!!!!!! REALLY DEPRESSED!!!