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He said it was important for us to stay aware of these negative feelings and exchanges and talk them through so we don't fall into the same pattern that I lived with as a child. He said that what we were after was a new experience for me--a "re-parenting."

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Wow, Miss C. What a session.

The quote above jumped out at me when I read your post. It sounds to me like T wants to give you a new, positive experience....and maybe he's worried that it's not making it through the negative filter??

I was really impressed in your post when you described your awareness of wanting to filter things in a negative way, but your ability to hold on to the knowledge that that wasn't what T was really saying. That's such a great skill.

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