Geekgirl... So sorry... I'm hurting along with you I read what you wrote... I know that must have been painful.

His "stunt" sounds like closure on his end, though. It was closure for you to give him the personal stuff, and maybe it was closure for him to give it back. Certainly seems like he was trying to make a point and it sounds pretty heartless on his end, but maybe in some very selfish way, it was making him feel better (at your expense, granted).

You might never get the apology. I never got one from my ex-husband and I really think the lack of closure slowed down my ability to heal. But, although after 4.5 years I'm still hurting from it, I now can look back and see that his refusal to let me have a final "closure" conversation and his inability to apologize really showed HIS personal weakness, not mine.

Tell him that LMo said to go suck an egg!

We are ALL going to be a-ok!