Yes, it is really hard work! But you have gone from reading the negative "I'm going to leave you" in what T says, to accurately reading what he says, that he is saying things to empower and help you. I thank you, because this has actually "clicked" with me. I'm having difficulty seeing the positive in what my T says. I have a feeling that I'm misinterpreting him, but the amygdala alarm is still set off. So, even though I can fathom a different meaning, I can think a different meaning, I have yet to "feel" the different meaning. When I also feel it, it will resonate, and that's what I think I'm seeing in you Somehow, as confusing as this reply is, I know you'll understand, LOL. Again, keep up the good work! I can't wait to see what scenarios you come up with now that you are seeing things in a positive light, LOL. What can possibly outdo the assprint, the fire alarm, and the bathroom key? I have no idea, but I'm sure you'll figure out something. Love you.