Well, I have to take part in this... because my partner and I smoke some every now and then.. about once a month which I feel is perfect. I wouldn't want to do more stuff more often than twice a month. And I wouldn't want my partner to do it more often than that, which he luckily doesn't.

We mostly smoke together. He thinks it's best to smoke in company, I sometimes smoke alone so I can work on my art. We take care of the house first, do the washing-up, take the dog out etc so we won't have to worry about that and things won't be left undone.

I'm a rather lazy one myself, but I was that way before I started smoking pot or doing any other drug.

I have bipolar disorder and drugs have had no effect on it (sad to say but most psychiatric drugs have had no effect on it either.. except maybe lithium).... I also had psychosis but it was in no way related to drugs, like some researches indicate.

When pot use becomes problematic and gets in the way of, for example, a relationship... is when the person is too fond of the feeling from pot. Sometimes when I'm sober, I can see in my partner's eyes that he really really likes being high, and if I didn't know he doesn't have the need to do stuff more often, I would leave him. Some people don't feel that way - they need that feeling more often.

It is problematic when being high is better than being with the one you love. when being high is better than sex. etc.

I have decided that if it ever comes to that point in my relationship, I will call it quits right away.

confusing thoughts, but I had to have my say. forgive me if I was foolish..