Hang in there, you're just beginning
It can seem like a slow process sometimes and especially at first.
I hardly spoke to my therapist for the first 9 months. I read a lot though and after talking for a few months I asked if she thought Borderline applied. She did. Borderline is very much related to our development so if she's talking about that it could be she is still determining what your childhood development was like.
Anyway, talk to her about all this. That's really important to tell her how you feel about everything including therapy, her, disliking talking about the inner child, anything at all.