Guy -- there is a BIG difference between "scared of the way you look" and "good personality and that's about it". I'm not saying it's wrong to be legitmately hurt, but MAN. I'm sure at least half of my boyfriends were first attracted to my personality and then secondarily, later, to my looks.

You have never answered a big question that several of us have asked, to my recollection: have you ever been evaluated for body dysmorphic disorder?

I'm sorry you overheard her saying that, and that you're taking it as hard as you are.