Just recently my some of my friends and I were talking and they asked my how I did not cry or show emotion although I'm going through a difficult time in my life, with my separation and such. I can't cry or be upset in front of other people neither. The only emotion I can show in front of others in anger, and that's my temper that takes the best of me. Men would definitely have a harder time too. I think people are expected to have a strong appearance or conscience in order to be considered "together".