((((((jinny))))
I can't believe the kids would be better without you. You have been a major part of their growing up and I can't imagine they would feel better without you. Our kids can be selfish when it comes to their thoughts and feelings. Remember...they are infallible. At the young adult age their world revolves around them. But from experience things will change. They become less self centered and more aware of their surroundings. Hon....hang in there..it will happen. A day will come of understanding....believe me. I have had that in my kids. Some have taken longer but it did happen.

Hugs
Snowy