I understand completely.

I'm actually going through similar things in my marriage involving separating and seeing another man who fulfills me sexually. I firmly believe it's beyond sex too, it's the intimacy and the arousal, the love....etc. I personally don't get none of those things from my husband but I do from the other man. Sex is just a simple word attempting to explain a boat load of other issues surrounding it. I too have tried everything including sexy lingerie and toys with my husband, but what it come down too was he doesn't appeal to me and emotionally I resent him. Although he is a good father and relatively good provider.

I believe this issue can lead to divorce. People seem to forget that sex and intimacy is just as important to a woman as it is to a man and it means everything when trying to have a bond with your partner.

I hope everything turns out well for you.