Hi Angel,
You could check on a chatroom, which you would know wouldnt have any members, and click on that room (to go into that room, I mean) and it will take you in to that empty room.
Then you could go to a private room.
Hope I helped, and hope I didnt hurt you. (I am Clyde a moderator here, and also a guy, but I think a pretty safe guy...)
If you dont wanna answer me back on here or PM's thats fine, but you can talk to the ladies and they can help clarify what I said about chat...sometimes my words arent the best, but my meanings are
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