Dear Mary Alice,
Bring some light entertainment to lighten your mood while you are away.
Have an open mind that others will be there and going thru separations too, so you can show pics and long for home together. Phone home alot.
Check out the town you will be in. Try and enjoy a little travel time since you are there anyway.
Go to movie while out of town or do something special, a nice dinner - a private treat for yourself.
Hopefully, when disability comes through, you can be at home.
Till then, I admire how you stepped up to protect your familys' resources.
You are stronger than you think. You will be okay.
Make it an adventure. Leave a schedule for H and have it taken seriously.
Stay with this job till disability ... which may be here in no time OR learn how this company does what it does in the mall, and maybe you'll be doing it for yourself, on your own, with what you learn on the job.
These job trainings offer people more than the companies realize because after a few months, you will know the product supply, everything, and can do something on your own ... even if you choose something besides watches, the set up for sales are basic ... for cottage business.
Whatever you do, have faith and hope for the best!
You are a great Mom and wonderful Wife to get out there when it's difficult to do - to get it done.
You are amazing!
peace and love,
night