It's seems so hard, I just got out of a 11 ear relationship, the whole dating thing and trying to start over & dealing with someone being unfaithful, how do you trust someone new? It feels so scary, I feel like i'm going to be alone the rest of my life. It is much easier it seems to meet people and date when your in your 20's but in your 30's its different, your thoughts and goals are different, is it only me who feels this way? How do you meet people without doing the bar scene and all your friends are married & most of their friends are married, so even doing the friend fixing you up is really not an option...