(((hugs))) Spirituality can certainly center a person. However, I've found many spiritual people who are caught in a habit of poor thinking, especially about themselves. It isn't about correct behavior, nwtr, in fact, I think making that as a goal might reproduce the "drama" that has caused many people's disorders. It's correct thinking that will allow you to be free in choosing your behavior, rather than controlled by errant thinking.
May everyone find these truths for himself.