I feel your pain; I have four children and since this "mental illness" has arisen they have become a handful. Frequently I blame myself for not being there "emotionally" for them. But the teen years are rocky. I've had the same issue with falling asleep only to have them sneak out. Just got done with juvenile court with my 15 year old too. I wanted to rip her to pieces for not thinking (of course I wouldn't touch her). I wish I had some advice for you, but all I can do is commiserate. Misery loves company!