(((freewill)))
My T is direct and well not all that warm and fuzzy but I can honestly say that I don't recall her giving me the impression that my condition was hopeless or unchangeable. At one point I do recall he saying something like, 'no amount of therapy will ever help with your feelings of being victimized.' The next session she was able to clarify what she meant, but I remember how devastated I felt thinking I was hopeless for a few weeks.

As for acceptance... just we've talk about that a few times, not fun.

Freewill I hope you continue to be strong and fight your way through this new information and find a way to improve what you can and accept the stuff that maybe can't be fixed at least in the immediate future. My belief is as long as you have a pulse and some level of consciousness, there will always be opportunities for healing. Maybe they really small steps and are hidden really well; but they are there. Keep trying.