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ONLY READ IF IN A GOOD PLACE THIS IS MORE FOR PEOPLE WHO HAVE NEVER BEEN ABUSED ......... TRIGGER TRIGGER TRIGGER
Children who have been abused sexually, emotionally from a young age have many different problems.
Some are so badly abused their brains totally fragment and they have many alters ..... this is because they went through so much trauma they had to put themselves ;elsewhere' in their minds to survive ...literally .....
Some, like myself have moments when they go into co consciousness .... not quite so fragmented ..... it takes years to heal, trust, feel no guilt, behave and fit into society withoutto many problems. some people heal faster than others ... it is very hard for a survivor of abuse .........
Often problems dont start until the 'victim' is ready, many years later to come to terms with the abuse.
Survivors often have trouble with anger .... beneath anger is hurt ..... triggers hurt, therefore anger sometimes shows. Control is another issue for some survivors ..... if we feel we are being told what to do or 'controlled' it is like going back to the times we had no control over 'others' actions.
Trust ..... if the survivor was not protected by parents/guardians/adults ...... trust is virtually eliminated from survivors life until healing is well underway ..... rejection, abandonment are BIG MAJOR issues .......
Healing takes a long long time with some people ..... especially if said person also had parent problems ...... ie neglected by parents .... all the above issues become inflated ......
I dont know why i am posting this ... maybe just to give people who haven't been physically or sexually abused an insight to how it is ...... an insight however, is all it can be, because unless you have been thruogh the hell of it, you'll never truly understand the behaviour, feelings, mind or soul of someone who has .....
Jinny
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