I told my husband this morning that I don't want him around my kids. I spent half of the week-end at my Moms to avoid them both. I'm going to be dealing with a teenager very soon and I don't need any bad influences. If my step-son were a friend of my sons, I would never let him hang out with him, nor would my son want to be his friend. My step-son is verbaly abusive to my 11 year old, (says he's gay and sucks d%#@ because he likes to do stuff like ride bikes and jump ramps, play baseball and football all the stuff normal boys are supposed to do). My step-son is very old for his age and my son still likes to play with match box cars and I want to keep it that way. My husband will also say stuff like he's my son what do you expect. Like he doesn't expect good behavior from him because he was bad and that it's cool that he's such a bad *****. But God forbid my son does something wrong, he jumps down his throat. I hate this situation and I wish it was to to where he wasn't coming over. I'm too much of a sissy to leave.