May lotus blossoms grow in your very footsteps. Bless you for changing that. Another great feature of diss. is often 'waking up' to things that *you* do not remember.

For me it is very odd as I usually cannot remember both names at once. I can remember one or the other but very unusual to have both names together.

Thank you mj for helping out here. I was overly triggered when I opened up the forum the other day and saw this post. I very much appreciate the understanding nature of the mods to edit when necessary.

At first I wanted to erase the thread but then realized it would invalidate the responses ppl have been kind enough to post and I didn't want to insult them by erasing their contributions. Thank you for saving the integrity of this thread and removing the neon lit names.

I will put them into the body of a post so that way I'd have to open the thread to see.

Again, mucho thanks. Knowing that y'all here help protect my safety---even when I'm the one endangering it----is a blessing.