Bit of a vent.

(not about someone here)

I hate people who are "there" and assure you that you matter, that they care, they'll always be there to help etc but they never are. They say they won't judge you, and they'll always be there for you, but they're not.

It's probably a waste of my time to wonder why someone will ignore me when they say they are there to talk. I know people have problems in their personal life but wouldn't it at least be decent to explain that's why they're suddenly avoiding you and ignoring you?

Is it something wrong with me or them? I know I read anger into things, and I'm naturally not trusting and I'm wary of being betrayed, but I've had it with people who say they understand and are there for you... but somehow never are.