to my dear messenger of help,

THANK YOU!!! thank you for letting me know that I had options regarding this post/thread. It freaked me out and knowing that a mod in this forum could help edit it was like lifting the weight of the world off my shoulders. Bless you for that.

so m'dear Fuzzette........you rest up and take good care of the bear. Thank you for offering up such concentrated help in this situation. I'm very fortunate to know someone so fuzzy and bearish.

I don't think there really is any answer that could help us understand. I just want to work in this world making it safer for children to grow up w/o this type of horror entering their innocent lives.