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I completely understand the points you are making, but I feel too vulnerable to criticizm/rejection right now, (because of my depression), to jump in more than this, but please don't take what was said personally... You KNOW that you are, in fact, a VERY intelligient and articulate person, (with whose opinion on the issue I happen to agree if that makes any difference )... Opening oneself up like in this thread does make trust an issue as well, but you know that you can not only trust those involved in the discussion, (and I believe you can), but, more importantly, you can trust youself to know for you what is right and what is wrong, and that's the most important thing of all, right? Your friend, as ever, Jillers.

<font color=blue>HI FROM PEANUT </font color=blue>