Hello,
I was just wondering if having some perfectionist type behaviors is a problem?

I am a perfectionist in some ways and in other ways I'm not so I'm rather confused.

But what I'm really confused about is weather or not perfectionism can become a problem....like a serious problem.

I hate things being messy it drives me crazy but I'm trying really hard not to clean up after anyone becuase that just means I'm caving into that but it is sooo difficult because my sister who I share a room wiht is not the cleanest person I've ever met and it drives me completly CRAZY!

My hair has to be perfect when I straighten it...when i'm doing it in the bathroom my sister will come in and be like your hair is striaght and I'll be like not its not shut up i'm' a perfectionist.

I also obsess over a lot of things like what i'm wearing my shoes that go with that outfit my makeup and the way my room looks, food and things in that nature.

I'm just not sure what to think or do.

Am I a perfectonist or am I just thinking i'm one.

And if I am a perfectionist is it a problem and if not can in become a problem?

Thanks for your time
CountryMusicGurl