OK, Bebop helped me put a "band aid" on my feelings. Sorry I vented; I guess I just want people to remember not everyone is in the same place of healing that they are. Some of us still have large gapping wounds, some are partially healed. But we all have feelings and have had those feeling hurt. We all (including myself) need to be mindful of how our words may impact others.

Sorry, I'll get off the soap-box now.