I have the same problems. When I'm away from the BF, I try not to think about what he's thinking or doing, and just focus on tasks to be completed or things that I truly enjoy.

I try to believe that he will be there to talk about everything later, and so far he always has. :-)

Also, you might want to find a non- threatening way to talk to him about your disorder. Chances are that he already has an idea anyway, and giving it a name may help him to understand a little better.

I try to find info online that describes some of my symptoms, and then leave it for my bf to read.

Hope this helps.

-Victoria