hope no one is offended by me bumping this up, and hoping that is all this is, a very belated thank you to everyone for your support (I was too embarrassed to even reply to this at the time and now I'm "paranoid" )

(stupid whiny me, the self help measures didnt help enough, feeling like mandyfins said here, but )
boy do I leave some things a long time
(did the same with ear infections...and some ofher physical stuff.)